How to Talk About Your Fetishes With an Escort
Everyone has desires they keep tucked away, hidden from everyday conversations. For many clients, the idea of opening up about a fetish, even to an escort, can bring a rush of nerves. That’s completely normal.
The truth is, sharing your fantasies can lead to a far more satisfying encounter. The stunning escorts London has graced us with know exactly how to make you feel confident enough to reveal what truly excites you, without fear of judgement.
If you’ve ever hesitated to mention your secret turn-ons, this guide will help you feel more at home with the idea.
Contents:
- Why Fetish Discussions Matter
- Choose the Right Moment
- Use Clear Language
- Build Trust with Dialogue
- Respect Escorts' Comfort Zones
- Why Choose Movida Escorts
Why Fetish Discussions Matter
A fetish is nothing to be shy about. It is simply another thread in the rich fabric of desire, and for many of our clients, it’s an essential part of feeling truly satisfied. Every preference deserves respect.
When you let your escort know what excites you, you’re giving her the chance to create a booking that hits all the right notes and helps you feel comfortable. Whether you have a foot fetish or are into domination, the key to a successful encounter is opening up about your desires.

“I’ve heard it all before—nothing surprises me. I’d much rather you tell me exactly what you like so I can make your booking as memorable as possible.” - Shelly
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Choose the Right Moment
The best time to mention your interests is often when you make the booking. You can do this either by including a note in the booking form or telling our receptionists when you call us directly.
It’s the easiest way to ensure you’re matched with an escort who’s happy to explore your particular interests, whether it’s domination, anal sex, watersports, or something else entirely.
If you want to go into details about your specific fantasies at the time of booking, the best moment is once you’ve arrived and the two of you have settled in. Share a drink, swap some easy small talk, and you can gently bring up what you’d like to explore.
The secret is not to blurt it out as soon as she walks through the door. Instead, take a breath, enjoy her company, and you’ll find it’s far easier to open up.
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Use Clear But Respectful Language
Avoid any awkward moments by discussing boundaries and safe words before diving right in to indulging in your fetish.
Our escorts are experts at reading a room and creating a relaxed, non-judgemental space. You don’t need to be embarrassed or hide behind vague hints. Be open, but be polite. The clearer you are, the easier it is for your escort to shape the experience around what you truly want.
Instead of mumbling or dodging the subject, try a confident but gentle approach:
- “I really enjoy the idea of sensation play—things like latex.”
- “I’m curious about trying BDSM, but I’ve never done it before.”
It’s always better to say what you actually mean, rather than hoping she picks up on subtle clues. You might be surprised by just how receptive she is.

“I’ve been doing this long enough that I’ve heard just about every request under the sun. I love it when someone trusts me enough to tell me what really turns them on—it makes the booking more fun for both of us.” - Courtney
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Build Trust With Feedback & Dialogue
A great booking is one where both you and your escort are in sync. At Movida, our girls know how to guide the pace naturally, keeping an eye on your reactions and making sure you’re enjoying every minute. But it helps when you give a little feedback along the way.
Simple phrases like “That feels amazing - keep going” or “I love when you do that” can really make a difference.
These easy comments help your escort know she’s on the right track and keep the connection flowing. Our escorts are naturally attentive: they want you to feel relaxed, spoiled, and very well looked after.
Respect Escorts’ Comfort Zones
It’s important to remember that not every escort offers every service. Some girls love exploring fetishes and are open-minded; others may prefer to stick to more traditional bookings.
The best way to avoid any disappointment is to read an escort’s profile carefully before you book. Make sure she lists the service you’re after. And if you’re ever unsure, call us and ask.
“If a client tries to push me into something I don’t offer, that’s an instant turn-off. The best sessions happen when we’re both on the same page and he’s respectful.” - Cambria
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Why Movida Escorts Excel at Fetish Bookings
Our escorts are the embodiment of professionalism, discretion and playful charm. Beauty is just the start of our girls' qualities. They’re smart, intuitive, and delight in making your deepest desires come to life.
We understand that revealing a fetish can feel risky. But our ladies are experts at creating an atmosphere where you can relax and let go. Whether you prefer a blonde bombshell with a leather whip or a sultry brunette with perfectly pedicured feet, you’ll find someone who makes you feel seen, heard, and utterly spoiled.
Our escorts also know how to offer aftercare once the fun has ended. That could be a soft stroke of your hair, a playful chat as you unwind, or simply sitting close and sharing a drink. You’ll feel cared for until the last minute and be excited to come back for more.
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Arrange Your Fetish Fantasy Now
Opening up about your fetishes can feel daunting at first, but it often leads to far more rewarding experiences. It’s important to feel confident enough to share your desires and we have the perfect escorts to help you do just that.
We value every client’s individuality. If there’s something you’d like to explore, don’t be shy. Mention your interests when booking and have a chat with your escort once you meet.
Browse through our gallery of fetish escorts and contact us to book your favourite.
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